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how to become unbreakable
june 26, 2013 by victor pride
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from the desk of victor pride
subj: how to develop a superiority complex
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the best way to become ordinary is to follow the advice of ordinary people.
maybe even some of the time they truly believe their advice will help you.
but most of the time their advice is designed to keep you from rising up.
they’ll say “well, i just don’t want to see you get hurt”.
but what they truly mean is “well, i’d really hate to see you succeed and remind me of my menial existence”.
so who can you take advice from?
you take advice only from people who walk the walk, the only people who give meaningful advice.
and here’s the cold hard reality: good advice is always the opposite of popular advice, or the “consensus”.
when you ask for the consensus in regards to blah blah you are asking how to fail.
i see this in internet forums all the time. some guy on a bodybuilding forum asks for a consensus on some exercise or supplement. a bunch of know-nothing talkers talk about their know-nothing opinion and the advice seeker says “thanks for the great advice. glad we’re all on the same page”.
if you want real advice that really works you take it from the lone wolf who’s opinion differs from the consensus. if the consensus is “a”, you do “b”.
but when you take unpopular advice you become a target to your friends and family for doing something out of the ordinary. they start to question you, they start to mock you, they demand you give in to them and do the normal thing.
so you do one of two things:
you tuck your tail between your legs and give in, like a broken dog, or
you become unbreakable.
larry the lamb chooses option #1.
winner wolf chooses option #2. he becomes unbreakable. the opinions of lessers mean absolutely nothing to the unbreakable.
what does it mean to be unbreakable?
to put it in no uncertain terms, becoming unbreakable means building and maintaining a protective sh-ll or wall around your emotions to insulate yourself so you don’t even entertain thoughts that deviate from your plan.
inside your head you have your plan, you know your plan. your mom, your dad, your girlfriend, your best buddy from 5th grade don’t know your plan because they aren’t inside your head.
when you spill your guts to them about your plan they try and talk you out of it. they don’t understand your plan and it isn’t their job to understand, it’s their job to try and talk you out of it.
the breakable will listen to them and say “yeah, i guess you’re right.” the unbreakable won’t even hear it.
if you want success you must have a plan for that success and it must be on your terms.
to do things on your own terms you must be unbreakable. develop an unbreakable sh-ll. when they shout their nonsense in your ear don’t let it break you.
when they talk down to you, ridicule you, or poke fun at you don’t let it break you. don’t even hear it, don’t even entertain it, don’t even pretend to listen.
remember this: they are in the position they are in because they took that same stupid advice; go with the flow. if you want to be like them then listen to them and become forgettable.
if you want more you must ignore.
recently a reader asked me how to deal with an inferiority complex.
here’s what you do: develop a superiority complex by becoming superior. don’t just think of yourself as superior, become superior.
this “everyone is equal and everyone is the same” line is cute and all but it’s baloney.
some people are good and some people are bad, some people are inferior and some people are superior.
my man victor,

- weroniqua

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